Are Indian teenagers sexually frustrated?

by **sunny** » Tue Jun 17, 2003 11:43 pm

Sure we are man. I mean, get real okay... Americans finish their first base at the age of 14, and by the time they\'ve completed their teenage, they are laid. But it\'s not like that here in India... See, I didn\'t even kiss a girl till now (don\'t take me as a loser, but it\'s a fact man). Hope things change over time and we get free-sex in India...

by **Arch** » Tue Jun 17, 2003 11:48 pm

how old r u sunny?

by **Arch** » Wed Jun 18, 2003 12:02 am

ok, so u r 21 and u feel u had been ready since u were 14?! and do you mean to say u never kissed a girl all these 7 yrs! Man! u r good. How about looking out for a job since you r anyways done w/ ur grad. and meanwhile u can go out for a date with a likable girl and get to know her and see if she will be fine for you, on the longer run for a long and happy marriage. save ur virginity. it is of use once u r married. its generally a wow for any girl too, the way it is for a husband when the wife is a virgin.

by **Arch** » Wed Jun 18, 2003 12:11 am

In reply to ur ? Yes, the Indian teens must be quiet frustrated. But the thing is I find is that the American teens are very frustrated too, y\'know! As you said, some of them must have finished experiencing everything by the time they have reached 16-18 yrs. Some are infected with various VDs and other infections, and at times I find, depending upon the schools, very pregnant and very frustrated teens too. At times single parenting, all by themselves, or going around abortion clinics, or being depressed and way out of league inspite of having been A+ students before they gave in to similar kind of frustrations! The choice is ours to make.

by **sunny** » Wed Jun 18, 2003 9:16 am

Hey Arch... maybe u r right, but I was talking about myself. I know - u get a girl every weekend for a date or a disco. Try not having a girl for month (not even talking to any) and u\'ll know for real what it feels like... Try it man, go on. Then we\'ll see what u gotta say.

by **Learner** » Wed Jun 18, 2003 3:55 pm

Why do we have to judge ourselves by the American Standards. There are so many shortcomings in their society which we do not have.

We are Indians, and let us remain and become good Indians.

Americans teenagers work during High School. Do you ?

by **vivek** » Wed Jun 18, 2003 4:01 pm

Heres what you posted in your board titled \"want to be email friends ???? hey wanna be mail friends pls mail me at sk8erboisunny@yahoo.com btw i am 21.. completed my graduation in B.Tech computers. looking for a girl WHO I CAN KISS.. sorry for being too transparent..... pls reply... luv sunny So you want to be friends with women because you wanna kiss. Now who is talking about sexual frustration?

by **sunny** » Thu Jun 19, 2003 11:47 pm

Mr.Moderator pls remove this title... if u don\'t hve the patience pls tell me hoe to do it nad i\'ll do it for my self... thanky you... sunny

by **CircleJay** » Fri Jun 20, 2003 9:11 pm

Dont get frustrated brovaz! chill out! the guy needs help and u ppl make this into a \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\

by **Arch** » Fri Jun 20, 2003 9:30 pm

u r right, CJ. sunny needs suggestions and we were all over him for being plain and straightfwd abt his frustrations. sorry sunny and thanx for correcting me, CJ. I was certainly giving him indirect suggestions

anil was the one who was giving clearer ones I guess. i will get back to that later during my day anyways..

by **Z C** » Fri Jun 20, 2003 9:53 pm

True, if you have experienced everything by the time you are 20, what will you do for the rest of your life? Change partners? You need something different right? I am sure this guy\'s next question will be \"Are Indians getting frustrated having a single partner throughout their life?\" or something like that... And as someone said, \"Be an Indian, first be yourself.\"

by **Z C** » Fri Jun 20, 2003 11:15 pm

hey Arch, Anil did not post any messages in this board. ha ha ha ha hes so much on ur mind ;-)

by **Arch** » Sat Jun 21, 2003 6:23 am

))) but then yes, he is! and infact fullhyd.com itself is, most often, y\'kno! Thats\' one way of being in touch w/ home, I guess

) my hyderabad, my home..

by **Anil** » Sat Jun 21, 2003 11:35 am

Arch is right. I did \"suggest\" an age-old solution to Sunny kiddo, but looks like he didn\'t get it. Of course, it was in some other board (I remember, it was about Eminem). This Sunny dude is right now all-pervasive, and it is difficult to post replies for all his postings. Well, someone has to answer to this kid otherwise he is throwing wild tantrums and our poor moderator will be in dilemma what to do:) And, dear Sunny boy, these things don\'t get solved by postings and awaiting replies. Just take matters \"into your hands\"

For heaven\'s sake, don\'t say, you don\'t get it!!!!

by **Satish** » Sat Jun 21, 2003 12:34 pm

Hi Sunny, pls. don\'t compare us Indians to the Westerners. A lot of Indian guys and gals have boyfriends and girlfriends, so there is nothing wrong in our society. Maybe sexual frustration shows off when you first meet a girl - there is one solution to it, you could watch the movie \"There\'s Something About Mary\". And don\'t be worried about yourself, b\'coz there\'s always room for improvement. There\'s nothing like free sex anywhere in the world. And one more thing, remember to be always Proud To Be An Indian. Cheers Brother!!!

by **Smocking Rock** » Sat Jun 21, 2003 6:15 pm

This is the story of one of my friend, like you he was also sexually frustated, but he got chance and he had sex...result \"he is frustrated to have sex more and more\". Eventually thinking of doing more illegal things.

by **Vishal** » Sat Jun 21, 2003 7:05 pm

Well guys first of all I welcome myself to the group ;-)

sorry if i intruded.

Well as sunny said are indian teenagers sexually fr.... wel i feel sex is a state of mind ... and for me i really dont believe in pre marital sex .. but thats me .. i feel there is no harm in kissing or anything but then its on u to think like me or unlike me.

I strongly feel that no one is born with any kinda frustration ... sexual or otherwise. I guess its the environment around us that creates taboos and stuff and makes us think about these things ... and when we start thinking and ppl around us saying this shud not be done and then other set saying its too cool .. that is the point frustration creeps in ..

I guess indecisiveness combined with how are thought process is shaped leads to any kinda frustration.

Am sorry for taking a lot of space .. I geuss I was in a mood to type.

by **sunny** » Sat Jun 21, 2003 11:46 pm

hey Vishal u don\'t have to be so formal da. all friends in here. arch just posted a msg asking me to take things easy, and now i am passing on the same msg 2 u. so chill. anysways thanx 4 ur posting. good 2 hear that u don\'t believe in pre-marital sex. it\'s a good idea to save it all for post-marriage. one thing i wanted to tell u is that more than our surroundings, i feel it\'s the media that has taken over. u kno we get to see al the stuff happening in the US and want a grab of it but can\'t which apparently leads to frustration.....

by **Vishal** » Sun Jun 22, 2003 1:13 pm

well sunny, mez not formal at all. neways, lets ditch the topic. well, regardin US, u know what, the media has hyped it a lot. well, i have beeen there for a long time. and u know what, u do see ppl smooching... but no man. it\'s not that free. neways, chill... :-)

by **Z C** » Sun Jun 22, 2003 1:20 pm

Media, media, media.......i remember the Board \"i love my friend\". Guys and gals, BE URSELF. this funda of learning, imbibing from others has been deep rooted in the society . when ur in LKG, parents \"look at him/her and learn, be good like them\"...........so u grow up and say, I want to learn more, good things, bad things and the worse things \"FROM OTHERS\".

by **Arch** » Sun Jun 22, 2003 8:45 pm

The questions that sunny has put across is a certain example of what most of the youngsters are needing the answers for, and maybe some of the older ones too?! These should be answered and not silenced. Whoever knows should be able to put it across in a decent and dignified ways.. and SUNNY BOY! shame on you, for being vulgar elsewhere on one of the boards! Anybody CAN be so.. or is it? It does not take an educated decent engineer that you claim that you are to be, to be vulgar. It takes any fellow like that whom I used to see as a very young child in front of my school. A very old man, sitting in a dhoti and kurta, and the moment he wud see a small girl, he wud flash himself! I was, what? an 8 yr old! I remember the shock and the feeling of pukeing all over him. Now, do you want the same feeling to be radiated around you? You have ways to express urself, Man! Rayalaseema are whatever !

by **sunny** » Sun Jun 22, 2003 10:46 pm

hey arch even though what i say right now is not relevant to the topic, i\'m saying it cos i have to. just forget about me beeing rude ok. i got a mail from the moderator and it\'s over now. hey man there\'s one thinig u should know here... this guy Z C started it. he called me something ... unfortunately or fortunately u did\'nt see that post cos the moderator removed it... i guess i\'ve made myself clear now............ BTW is every person here from the USA ... i thought u guys were from HYDs. i guess that is the reason for all the english used.

by **sunny** » Sun Jun 22, 2003 10:56 pm

hey man forgot, thanx for the example that u quoted....

by **Arch** » Mon Jun 23, 2003 4:34 am

thats\' what JK-jiddu krishnamurthy says ZC. and u were making fun of him elsewhere! I will quote what he wrote later when i can lay my hands on his book, maybe in a day or two. I wanted it to be in his own words. they make such sense, u kno!

by **krishna** » Mon Jun 23, 2003 2:15 pm

Life is short. Sex is a part of life, if we think more than that then we are becoming more than that of a human being. Sex means its a relation between men and women. The relation must be good, friendly, Lovingly then you can enjoy your life. I think above what I mentioned will be found only in our country India. Every men and women will enter several steps in their lifes since their birth. Firstly childhood in which child loves mother and after that teenage in which teenagers will fell in love. Likewise sex is also a part of life which may enter into your life in any time. Strictly in my opinion lovers only can enjoy the real sex life.

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