Pregnancy without marriage - good or bad?

by **Bhaimiya** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

BAD BAD AND BAD.

by **Shahed** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

Sleeping with somebody without marriage and getting pregnant. Carrying Illegal relationship in the name of friendship or modernization . This is what our indian culture, our tradition. This is what we learned from our parents , from our religion. Just tell it is good or Bad.

by **khajabi** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

It is \"zina\" and \"unforbidable\". Curse on those who are involved in this type of relationship.

by **Zoya** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

Its a sin.very very bad.

by **guess** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

this is a very simple question shahed....and the answer is bad...thats obvious...isnt it....do u mean that having sex is GOOD as long as a women don get pregnant....i think ur question should be rephrased as....\"\"\"is getting pregnant before a marriage GOOD or BAD...for a couple who r goin to marry in future...(like many of the celebrities... including sridevi)......\"\"\"\"

by **hardcoder** » Tue Jun 25, 2002 12:30 am

It is definitely bad, and it is unfair to the child who is in the womb. For the sake of a few minutes pleasure, conceiving can cause a lot of heartache and land you in a situation that is irreversable. From the culture point of view, there are many in the west who still view single parenthood as wrong. And its wrong from the Asian point of view. Most Asian countries, not only India, frown upon sex before marriage. And last but not the least, every religion says no to this condition. So I guess we know where the discussion leads to now, from every point of view

by **Bhirr Ustaad** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

phatrey maar key khatam kardena ka hukum hai good bad ka sawaal nai hai chichha , kya modern sawaalan karrain tum........likalgaye kya

....Bhirr Ustad

by **Ucchu Mian** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Shahed..this kind of a query from a fairly well informed person like you is surprising to me !! You know very well that it is bad indeed at all levels - social, religion etc. ..

Kyun - eik aad supporting jawaab ki aad mein kuch kar guzarne ka iraada hai kyaa bawaa... sambhalo appke liye ladkiyon ki talaash jaari hai..jaldi dulha banaingay tumarku..

by **Shahed** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

I really agree with all my board friends, but you dont know yes-day what happened on the board titled \'who will be the winner, boy or Girl\', and it was an outcome of that henious and shameful act. I put up this board in general and not personal beleive me ? But if you were on that board & its discussion definately you will outta your mind. It was really horrible,disgusting and shameful for any good human being. But if you want to know the details please ask moderator, I really feel shame even to express those evil paras on the board. You are lucky enough that you were not there in that discussion. This board is created(in General not personal)against those unfortunate people who forgot their culture, tradition,religion and thinks that pregnancy without marriage is ok for them and there is nothing wrong in it. I repeat sleeping with anybody or getting pregnant or Illigal relationship before marriage is Good or Not. Does our tradition, our culture our religion allow this ???? Please visit \'who will be the winner , a boy or a girl board\' for further details.

by **hina** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Kamsaykam hamaray mazhab mein to is sawaal ki bhi gunjayesh nahin hai.Allah taala nay saaf lafzon mein farmaya hai kay do cheezein maafi kay qabil nahin ek Shirk aur doosray Zina .Zara sonchiye kay aisa kyoon farmaya allah taala nay ? Iskay faiday hain yaa nuqsaan , to yeh sawaal ka jawab mil jayega. Waisay mein nay yahaan kai logon ko dekaha hai jo yeh bhi kartay hain , lekin jahan tak mein jaanti hoon duniya ka koi bhi mazhab is cheez ki ijazath nahin deta . Ab ghalti karnay kay baad halath ko zimmedar tahrana yeh to sarasar galath baath hai . I think it all depends on one\'s strong will power no matter what situation you might be in.It is wrong , wrong and totally haraam !

by **hina** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Shahed Bhai , aap achanak \"shaadi \" kay qissay ku qatam karkay yeh kyaa to baataan karrain meray samajh mein nai aara ! Shaadi.com par jaakay dekhiye shayed koi pasand aajaye , doosron kay bharosay pay nakko baitho aap.

by **Shahed** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Hina di aur doosre bhaiyon, aaisee koi baat nahi hai aur na hi ye board main apni khushee se daala. Ek shaks jisee aap sab log acchi tarah se jaante hai, kal woh is baat pe israar kar raha tha ke ye sab theek hai, chatla hai lekin mai, bhaimia , hardcoder is baat ke khilaaf behas kar rahe they. Baad mein behas itni badh gayee aur bahoot se log ismein shaamil ho gaye aur dekhte hi dekhte sab log aapas mein lad jhgadne lage. Sab ek doosre ki family ke ladies ko is mein involve kar liye, mazhab ko beech mein le aaye, aur khul ke ek doosre ki buraaye karne lage. Baat hadh se aagey badh gayee thee. Usee dauraan kuch board banaaye gaye, jis mein se ek ye bhi tha. Aaap chahe to woh board dekh sakte hai \'who will be the looser , Boy or Girl\'. Us mein abhi bhi woh message hai jis mein koi \'is cheez\' ko badaawa de raha hai aur ham usey condemn kar rahe they. Us board pe se kam-az-kam 30-50 messages jo kaafi gande aur ghatia they moderator nein mita diye. Agar aap mein se shayad koi bhi woh message padh leta to aap logon ka bhi khoon khawl jaata....Duniya ki jitni buree batein hai sab usmein kahee gayee thee... Khair choriye ab jo hai nahin us pe kya behas karna.. lekin is board se personally mera koi lena dena nahin hai. is liye is talluq se aur behas bannnnd... aur apni shaadi ki baat shuru.. Hooooooonnnn tou kahan they Ham...............

by **Bhaimiya** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Shahed ney jo kaha woh sach hey, bahut hi ghand phelee thee kal aur ghand subsey pehley wohi phelaya jiska shahed ney zikr kiya hey (that guy always criticize others). Arey bhai sub log Shahed ki shaad ki karwayee jald sey jald aagey badawo, bechara bahut pareshan hey, yeh saal nahee nikla chachiye.

by **Shahed** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Thanx Bhaimia aap nein gawahi deke mujhe bacha liya, agar hardcoder bhi thodee help karte tou aur bhi accha hota, Warna mere doosre saathi aur Hina Di mere baare mein kya kya sonch rahe they!! Waise aap sab logoun ko meri taraf se bahoot jald ek accha sa surprise milne waala hai..!

by **Shahed** » Wed Jun 26, 2002 12:30 am

Areyy ! Bhirr Vastaad Kya tou bi hai bawaa ! Mai CHICHHA nai hoon yaaro, abhi meri shaadich nai huvee.. abee se mere ku chichha bana ke kiya shaadi rukwa detain. Woh jo poocha main woh modern Koschan nai hai ek pagal ki harkatoun ka jawaab hai. uspey mat jaao tum. Khaali aankh mooch ko Haan Ya Naa mein jawaab de diyo. Yaich uskey liye bhot hai. Aap bhi yaro sonchte na samajhte BHirrrrr bolke bol detey. Iteey poeman likhe hanste hanste mere pet bhi bhirrr ho gaya.

by **pro diggerrr** » Wed May 05, 2004 8:49 pm

whuhooo.. one more dugged out.

Questions seem to be the same for so many generations to come, huh?.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Wed May 05, 2004 8:53 pm

*kicks pro diggerrr back into the grave he dug up n starts filling soil frantically*

by **azazel** » Wed May 05, 2004 8:54 pm

pro diggerrr wrote:whuhooo.. one more dugged out.
Questions seem to be the same for so many generations to come, huh?.

haan, magar stop diggin now!!! :evil:

by **Habitual Perfectionist** » Wed May 05, 2004 8:58 pm

Don't you gravediggers have any better graves to dig?

And I wish this GUEST who has posted here comes back to FH. I'll really enjoy flaming him/her to extinction.

by **azazel** » Wed May 05, 2004 9:06 pm

CtrlAltDel wrote:*kicks pro diggerrr back into the grave he dug up n starts filling soil frantically*

*seals it by pouring cement on the freshly closed grave*

by **CtrlAltDel** » Fri May 07, 2004 7:17 am

azazel wrote:
CtrlAltDel wrote:*kicks pro diggerrr back into the grave he dug up n starts filling soil frantically*
*seals it by pouring cement on the freshly closed grave*

*...and watches out for anymore grave diggers trying to unearth more tales from the crypt...*

by **azazel** » Fri May 07, 2004 7:23 pm

*gravediggers found, Terminated* :twisted:

by **CtrlAltDel** » Fri May 07, 2004 7:27 pm

azazel wrote:*gravediggers found, Terminated*

amen

by **Alexis** » Mon May 24, 2004 9:26 pm

Absolutely not!

In America, illegitimate children are dime a dozen. No one bats an eyelid when a 15 or 16 year old girl gets pregnant with her boyfriends baby. But thats America for you. However, if an Indian woman got pregnant pre-maritally, then all hell would break loose. Virtuous and honorable women dont make irrational and indecent decisions. Neither would the woman have respect in society nor the hapless bastard child.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Mon May 24, 2004 10:13 pm

Alexis! welcome to the Full Hyderabad Archeologists club...! :lol:

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