Opinion on marriage

by **Curious Hyderabadi** » Mon Oct 21, 2002 3:00 am

Hydee G & G\'s : Whatz ur opinion of Oscar Wilde’s “Woman marries out of curiosity and man marries out of boredom. In the end both are disappointed”

by **seetharam** » Mon Oct 21, 2002 4:10 am

Marriage is not curiosity, boredom, mathematics or physics... it is chemistry

by **Neeraj** » Mon Oct 21, 2002 11:19 am

Wedding is a union of two hearts bascially, it is not a business deal,(which seems to be now in the name of dowry).

Unless this wonderful chemistry did not happen you and I will not be keying into this board.

A guy after 22 yrs should certainly get a job to settle, and after 28 he should certainly marry and make his family, this also applies to gals...

So positively wedding is a union of two souls which become one and multiply into many.

by **whoever** » Mon Oct 21, 2002 12:22 pm

there is another one which goes... \"a woman marries a man hoping he will change. a man marries a woman hoping she WONT change. in the end both are disappointed.\"

by **Suresh** » Tue Oct 22, 2002 2:09 am

Its certainly lots of logistics

by **Aishwarya** » Tue Oct 22, 2002 10:07 am

The road to happiness is so narrow that it takes two of them to come together and merge in to one soul and tread the path. This process of unison comes with marriage... dedicating one\'s life to the happiness of the other person is a big deal and marriage ensures that it happens... and this is what gives sanctity to the whole thing!Therefore one should respect the oldest institution on earth - marriage.

by **lucifer-in-disguise** » Tue Oct 22, 2002 11:12 am

whoever, your phrase is a better one, i enjoyed it... how so true!

by **vivek of themavericks...remember!!** » Tue Oct 22, 2002 7:13 pm

Marriage is like a drive in Hyderabad. Sometimes you climb up the flyover and find that it lands on the same road and figure that you have wasted fuel, while at other times you figure that the flyover does not land at all (opp the Secretariat)! Sometimes there are roads so narrow that two buses can make your life hell and paint your face with exhaust during peak hour, while there are broad roads with a luxury sedan and a bullock cart and no one follows lane system. Sometimes there are no signals so you all decide on consensus while at others times there are signals which are insanely fast. Sometimes you find wine shops open till 12am while the pubs close at 10:30. Sometimes you miss your place of visit and figure that you are actually on a oneway (always), while you also find guys driving the opp direction on the same road (but you remain apprehensive). You find popcorn sold at 5 a packet before the movies, and it becomes 6 during the movie. Sometimes you wonder why guys with a worse face than you are actually on a bike with a pretty babe while you stand to wonder \"what\'s wrong? i do look good on a bike?\". Sometimes you also feel that dumb guys become Telugu film heros romancing with Mumbai flop heroines while you handsome hunk(you think) has a dad working in a 9 to 5 job with no contacts with any rich fella. A lone driver in a place like this can go mad and decide to vacate and leave, so you need to have an adviser and a partner to guide or travel through. A place like Hyderabad (life) can become tolerable. It\'s about sharing agony... cuz happiness should be shared with more than two. Else, get a map and use your hand.

by **hiall** » Wed Oct 23, 2002 12:32 am

\"The road to happiness is so narrow that it takes two of them to come together and merge in to one soul and tread the path\"... it\'s good ...hope this was original!!

by **vivek of themavericks remember!!** » Fri Oct 25, 2002 11:42 am

A que... If the \"road to happiness\" is so narrow then why do two people walk and then think of mergers and aquisitions?! One person walk at a time yaar.

by **vivek of themavericks remember!!** » Fri Oct 25, 2002 11:56 am

marriage involves everything - not only logistics, supply chain, budgeting, production, maintainance, communication, inventory control, Public Relations, performance appriasal, dispute resoulution, information management, quality control, quality standards, financials like borrowings, working capital, reserves and surpluses, dividends!!! contingency planning, backward and forward intergration (no Pun here), documentation and more. Except batch number, expiry date, recruitments and margins, everything else has found a place in the so called oldest institution. Management of so many parameters by just two people is impossible. Luckily in India a marriage is not merely between two people, it\'s between two families. It\'s a package deal! One family marries another one.

by **neethika** » Fri Oct 25, 2002 10:58 pm

hey, yes that was good but women do see life with some sense of poetry and mushyness but that does not mean you make fun of it. What Aishwarya probably meant was a need to share and care for each other in the difficult path called life. It\'s important. You men are so dry that the whole burden of making life easier comes on us.

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