Is it appropriate to ask a BOY if he is a Virgin before com

by **Archie** » Wed Apr 30, 2003 6:21 am

Shud WE? .. and how do we know he\'s telling the truth?!

by D » Wed Apr 30, 2003 7:18 am

How wud u kno I tell u the truth?

by N » Wed Apr 30, 2003 11:08 am

Hand over the case to CB-CID

by **Irf** » Wed Apr 30, 2003 11:14 am

You can sure ask. Would it be a criteria for you to get married to him if he isn\'t? And, you\'re right, there\'s no way in which you would know he\'s telling the truth. It all depends how comfortable you are with each other

by **pal** » Wed Apr 30, 2003 3:38 pm

dont u get married if he isnt....i fear u`ll remain unmarried for a long time...!!

by **Mohini Sharma** » Thu May 01, 2003 10:38 pm

Absolutely! No point getting married if he is not! Virgins are tender and so delightfully fresh. Luckily most Indian guys are virgins and I would suggest that you shop around and try some out before settling on one.

by a » Thu May 01, 2003 10:46 pm

how do we get to know if they are virgins or not !!?

by A » Fri May 02, 2003 12:48 am

uh, o. does it mean most of you aint\' virgins? then why expect the girls to be? why ask us?

by **Arch** » Fri May 02, 2003 1:49 am

Finally, we do know by the response of the whole lot of postings on this board, that it is not possible for us to know if a boy or a girl is a virgin and that it does not seem to be mattering anymore now. What seems to be mattering the most is the personality and the differences in between the two of us, if we can live with those, right?!

by **pal** » Fri May 02, 2003 2:26 am

cuz thats the way it is!! ...I\'ve never heard of male pros, at least in India ...did u??

by b. » Fri May 02, 2003 2:38 am

there is no harm in asking..!! and maybe medical checks are possible...hey any medicos on the board can throw some light on the object..!!!

by **Mohini Sharma** » Fri May 02, 2003 8:51 am

You mean you can\'t tell? It\'s easy, watch for the tell tale blushing the subject comes up. There are many other unmistakeable signs which you can see if you pay close attention.

by **Kanya Kumari** » Fri May 02, 2003 5:59 pm

Even if you (ladies) ask the boy whether he is a virgin or not, he won't tell you that he has been / is bedding around some chic, will he? Nope, open your eyes ladikiyon... the point one should think about here is whether he will stick to the girl he has committed to or not. Anyway there are hajaar chutkiyan (ideas) to hold him in your mutthi... 
P S: By the by, if a boy asks his girl whether she is a virgin before committing to marriage, how will it sound to you??????

by **ACE** » Tue May 06, 2003 3:46 am

Tell me something... How do you define virginity? Do you define it as when he makes his first ejaculation? Or the first time he goes to bed with a girl - or for that matter a guy (who knows)?
I ain\'t gay though - and these are preposterous questions. If u like a guy, u like him. These questions would really piss some guys off... If you girls out there wanna go on a rampage to find your luv, I would feel that guys would despise you if you asked them that... if they did answer your question, you should realise what the guys next question to you would be... Now would that be embarrassing! You know what I mean...

by **Fiddler** » Tue May 06, 2003 5:26 pm

I think if both people haven\'t reached a stage of intimacy where they feel comfortable asking each other questions like this, then marriage is out of the question. Marriage is something that should be contemplated only when two people know each other well enough to make a comfortable decision. Of course, if you\'re talking about an arranged marriage then the whole situation changes...

by **Doc** » Tue May 06, 2003 9:48 pm

It is foolish to enquire about these personal matters. Once you decide to tie the knot you should not try rakeup the past lives of each others. If you are looking for a vargin, It is better to remain unmarried!!!

by **Sher** » Wed May 07, 2003 6:32 pm

Hahaha... Fresh and tender...
Are we talking abt teddy bears or guys??

by **Archie** » Thu May 08, 2003 12:10 am

yes! ACE, what you say is just right.It is absolute non-sense and demeaning. I am sorry if I have hurt somebody\'s respect here by posting this board. do you remember that there was a board posted with the same title, except it had \'girl\' in the title. I was pissed off too and I created this board. that board had 5 postings and this has sevaral more. why so? I do not know ! but i do have an inkling.

by A » Thu May 22, 2003 8:39 am

Yes, I did hear of them, in india. Its for the same reason that they choose to be one as the women choose it for.

by **sunny** » Sun Jun 22, 2003 11:08 pm

theres\' absolutely no problem if either the girl or the guy is\'nt a virgin as long as they have played it safe. at the end of the day that\'s what life is all about right? .. living .!! and if by marrying someone whos\' gonna hinder this then it is a problem. so guys & gals PLAY SAFE, pre or post marrital ...... always wear the thing...... ciao

by **DuDe_iN_tOwN** » Mon Jun 23, 2003 11:52 am

here\'s my solution ..fall in love ..love the person for who they are ..forget about what they have done ..etc etc ..
cheers !
:)

by **Pixy** » Mon Jun 23, 2003 1:18 pm

I totally agree with you..

by **Arch** » Mon Jun 23, 2003 2:20 pm

Wah beta, tera javab nahin !

by **DuDe_iN_tOwN** » Tue Jun 24, 2003 3:35 pm

thank you maate ( maate so that i can get more hysterical ) 
maa ..mujhe baathroom jaana hai !!!!!!!!! ( remember ???!! )
 
cheers!

by **Arch** » Wed Jun 25, 2003 9:44 am

( nope, i did not understand ur joke, if it is one, sorry.

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