My girl is harrassing me

by **Coolnut** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 2:29 pm

Hi!,
 mY girl is ripping me off ,she and her mother are harassing me...iM scared if theyre going to come up with somthing nasty ..what should I do???...first it was normal ..then slowlly the trouble started as in she could call at 11:00 in the night but I was asked not to call her..I was asked by her to speak to her through some other channel..,..hey Ive been nice..why is she coming up with these quirky ..things...I m scared looking at the way things are going if ...one fine day they book a case saying I am harassing her

by **archana** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 2:34 pm

maybe she has an affair with somebody else (a rich guy) and her mother wants her to make quick money; she\'s a barrier between u two - happens a lot in desi families.
 
 what u can do is tell her mother frankly to get out of the way, or else you won\'t take your wifey in your house.. end of story.. hope it helps!

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 4:03 pm

archana...are u sure the poor guy\'s married to that girl? seems more like she\'s his girlfriend...and if so, its easy for him to break off the relationship.

by **archana** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 4:19 pm

LOL I never noticed it ctraltdel. if he\'s not married, all he has to do is avoid that witch. but in another board he said that his name was \'archana\'. so it is a he or a she???

by **neeraja** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 4:30 pm

coolnut,
 
 every coin has two sides, ok what the other side of the story is about? what did you do to her for her to get so annoyed with you? are you married or just engaged or just hanging around.. if the third option is yes.. then you can talk to them for a spllit... if its going to be the first two options then you need to talk it over nicely and patch up with the help of your elders also....
 
 Creation takes time.. while destroying is within seconds please remember...

by **coolnut** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 5:31 pm

yup there are 2 sides to the coin..I was nice...spoke to her when she was sick...called up to check up if shez ok..went to her house met her parehts we spent time togther..wonder why things have changed....any Im not maried or engaged to her....as of nowe...but you know now a days you never know whats cooking the same mother who used to encourage me calling started getting angry..and off late its no calls any where leave alone meeting .....she acuses me of being self centered after all this.....shucks man life sucks with such people

by **CtrlAltDel** » Thu Dec 04, 2003 6:05 pm

hey...waitaminnit....u r a guy then! why did u call yrself \"archana\" in another board. some of us thot u r a lesbian!!!!!
 abt yr problem, i think her mom now feels u r no good for her girl. maybe the girl too fells that way now. sorry yaar thats the way the cookie crumbles. find yrself another girl

by **archana** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 1:38 am

hey coolnut, screw that nut, I mean the girl you love. pro\'lly she wants more out of you; you know what I mean.. and wait for the right one to come along..

by **coolnut** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 10:48 am

okay..but how can I be sure that they dont build up any damn....thing agianst me... all of a asudden things ve changed wonder why from the days where we used to speak for 3 hours to now no calls why ????

by **neeraja** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 1:47 pm

You had the guts to talk to this girl, without your elders knowledge, and was able to convince her mother sitting through a day for 3 hours, so you should also have the guts to face any problems if any ,,,, be a man and face the problem..

by **coolnut** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 2:03 pm

no neeraja her parents and my aprents knew about it /know about it...OK....wonder why things have all of a sudden changed

by **archana** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 2:04 pm

whoa neeraja, are you out of the 18th century? what do you mean by saying \"be a man and face the problem\"?
 
 I am a woman; so if I have a problem, does it mean I gotta sit in a corner and cry all night??
 
 anyway, coolnut, if those people don\'t want you to be a part of their lives anymore, there is no point in pursuing that matter.. see even if you DO marry her, there is no guarantee that in future she will not continue to be her mother\'s puppet, right? never NEVER hook with a girl or a guy who is anyone\'s puppet, or else you\'ll be in deep shit..

by **coolnut** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 2:32 pm

thanks archana..for that valuab;e piece of advice..wonder as to why I dont come across sane people like you

by **Raj** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 6:14 pm

hey come on archie, relationships are not just about \'hooking up\' and stuff...until of course, sex is the only thing on one\'s mind...in which case, it\'s not a \"relationship\" in the first place. Only a mutual agreement between a slut and her customer in which she doesn\'t charge any money.

by **CtrlAltDel** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 9:13 pm

Bhai saab...if a man and a woman fall in \'lust\' (as different from \'love\'), its not fair to label the woman as a slut and \'dignify\' the man as a customer. either condemn both or dont.
 personally i dont think its right to pass judgement on persons who r only fulfilling their biological needs(!).
 
 either join em or leave em alone...

by **archana** » Fri Dec 05, 2003 11:24 pm

raj, by hooking up, I mean getting together and knowing each other for a while. If you think hooking up has anything to do with \"hooker\" or something like that, check the dictionary before posting anything on a public forum.

by **coolnut** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 12:20 pm

yup!!! archana....seems like youre a sensible person

by **archana** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 1:01 pm

no problem coolnut

I just hope you overcome this phase in your life. Of course its easy for me to say it, but only time will heal..

by **coolnut** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 7:22 pm

hey!!! thnax...btw...are u listed on the netpals I wuld like to mail u ???

by **hyd_blues** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 10:39 pm

u r everywhere arch.....y not talk to me on yahoo? or leave a msg, and we could talk later. i am sure you could match my pace,,,

by **admirer** » Sat Dec 06, 2003 11:53 pm

wow..why don,t you two..\\

by **archana** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 12:06 am

hi coolnut. I am registered with hyderabad rocks egroup. you can mail me from there; I don\'t really want to put my email up here. in teh past I have had to keep changing email addresses often cuz some rotten people would keep sending me mails.

by **coolnut** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 2:26 pm

hey archana is it a yahoogroup...?can you send your email id to splicy98@yahoo.com..i understand ur problem..but I guess if youre not sure u cant send me a dummy id....im just not able to find hyderabad rocks group

by **CtrlAltDel** » Sun Dec 07, 2003 4:25 pm

the group is \"hyderabad_rocks\". go to groups.yahoo.com, sign in with yr yahoo id, search for the group and join in.

by **Mayavi Morpheus** » Mon Dec 08, 2003 1:25 am

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hyderabad_rocks
 
 BTW, where fiddler, seems he needs a speical invitation.

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