ONE COOL FAMILY

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agreed, but its easier said than done..

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Topic: ONE COOL FAMILY
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Topic: ONE COOL FAMILY
Replies: 2033
AUTHOR: enigma
Views: 21727

Congratulations, "enigma" ... 2 K Plus Posts ... @22 K Views!

Thanks a lot HH sir...i am really thankful to you for keeping the thread alive for all these months..really appreciate what u did..

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90/10 Principle

Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life (at least
the way you react to situations). What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is
decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no
control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from
breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off.

A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this
10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you
can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control
how you react.


Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks
over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over

what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react.
You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup
over.


She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your
spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of
the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change
your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy
crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the
bus.


Your spouse must leave immediately for work.
You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because
you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After
a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at
school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your
briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to
get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive
home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and
daughter.
Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have
a bad day?

>> A) Did the coffee cause it?
>> B) Did your daughter cause it?
>> C) Did the policeman cause it?
>> D) Did you cause it?
>> The answer is " D".
>> You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
>> How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
>> Here is what could have and should have happened.
>> Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You
>> gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next
>> time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt
>> and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the
>> window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You
>>
>> arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss
>> comments on how good the day you are having.
>> Notice the difference?
>> Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended
>> different.
>> Why? Because of how you REACTED.
>> You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The
>> other 90% was determined by your reaction.
>> Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.
>> If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge.
>> Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the
>>
>> negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your
>> day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired,
>> getting stressed out etc.
>> How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?
>> Do you lose your temper?
>> Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel
>> fall off)
>> Do you curse?
>> Does your blood pressure skyrocket?
>> Do you try and bump them?
>> WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the
>> cars ruin your drive?
>> Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
>> You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get
>> irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into
>> finding another job.
>> The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the
>> day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no
>>
>> control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the
>>
>> other passenger.
>> Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you
>> know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the
>> results. You will lose nothing if you try it.
>> The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this
>> principle. The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved
>>
>> stress, trials, problems and heartache.
>> We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
>> It CAN change your life***!!!!!!!
>>
>>

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90/10 Principle *****

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***** "Worry Of Things In Your Control" ^^^^^ ...



^^^^^ If In Control Why WORRY !?! ... If Not In Your Control ... WHY Worry ?!? ...

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