by Prasad » Sun Mar 15, 2009 12:19 pm
Hi there,
We have only your version of the story, and we'll assume it's completely true. I think then that you should communicate your issues very clearly to your husband. After that if there is no sympathy/change, move to your parents' house (or stay separately if your parents aren't very helpful either). Let him miss you and come back to fetch you - if he doesn't, it's okay, he's going to be a lousy husband anyway. You deserve another chance at marital bliss.
As for exams/job, they'll happen, don't worry - your job is to keep preparing and trying. The world is in a rather sad state now, after a few months it should get easier to find jobs anyway.