Girls read it...MY irritating wife....

[CtrlAltDel]

Thankx for the back welcome

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i request every1 to start at least 1 or 2 very intreasting or serious commedian board.

there's already a Humour thread....

y dont u start one n we'll see...?

[ZC]

Posting anonymously in a Discussion Board.....whats it called?

atleast, ur wfe has the guts to do it in front of u

Its unfair to say that. He was venting and I think he needed to let some steam off. I just hope now he can talk to his wife directly and tell her that their marriage needs work.

venting out by portraying himself as 100% rt and his wife as 100% wrong is ..................



guts-less-ness blah....blah...blah.....

[Alexis]

Well ZC, its human nature to point fingers at others and not look at oneself. Im not justifying Wheelchairs blaming the entire thing on his wife. But its unfair to jump at his throat now. He came on here to share his woes and get support.



So instead of ctiticizing him, how about we advise him?









ps: You should change your name to CZ, atleast then people would think it means Cubic Zirconia. But then, why would you wanna be a fake diamond. A diamond wannabe.

[CtrlAltDel]

Cubic Zirconia....A diamond wannabe.

we call em American Diamonds...i always wondered what peole in America called them....

[Alexis]

Well now you know, CAD.

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Cubic Zirconia....A diamond wannabe.

we call em American Diamonds...i always wondered what peole in America called them....

Alexis??

[Alexis]

You beckoned, HP?

[Habitual Perfectionist]

Nope Alexis...I was just wondering if they call Cubic Zirconia Alexis in the states.

[Alexis]

Youre calling me a fake, HP?



How am I fake though? You practically know everything about me, including how I look.



Someone mentioned they thought Alexis was inspired by 'A-Lexus', which is a luxury car. But actually Alexis is an actual Greek name. It has nothing to do with cars.

[Kadi]

Hey dude.....Just a tip.... For once try to do exactly whatever she wants to be done and see how it goes....it seems like u r taking it in a negative way and that your wife doesnt know that you are infact being irritated by her nagging...talk2her through it....i hope n wish things work out for u both....all dabest...



NOTE : Also you must be under the misconception that you are the only smart ass in the world please lets give some credit to the gals too...Cheeers mate //

I am a manager in IT firm, academically excelled, well traveled in Europe and America. I got married and Have a 1 year old son too. My marriage life is really happy for first 2 years. I don’t say I am Perfect guy but I can assure you, I am any average guy like you.
Never had any problem with any one in my life except with my wife. I never had any problem with anything except her nagging; complaining and advising . Recently she started advising too much…initially it was one or two suggestions per day. Now it has become 5 to 6 suggestions / hour ..How should I dress, How to eat , how to talk …apart from That she gets irritated for small things for spilled milk, water on floor. I would have divorced her if we did not have a child. So many things like sentiment, emotions, our son future. I used to be known as a calm guy in the company. Recently my peers and Superiors noticed me that I got changed calm person to angry man. It has become like oral war in our house. I never used physical force to control her..


Finally the worst thing happened…I was driving from Bangalore to Ooty on May 28th, my wife started advising. ..How smoothly I should drive and keep on talking about my driving, every thing like breaking , turning, accelerating, I got so much irritated…the more I got irritated, the drive got worse..She keep on talking…I literally lost my Control , steered off road and hit a big tree.. My Legs hurt so badly.. Doctors said I have to be on Wheel chair for 6 months…I can not even walk on crutches…I don’t know when I will walk again. Luckily my son did not get hurt; he was buckled in seat belt. My nightmare wife got big scar in her chin and had a broken arm... I was forced to take 6 months unpaid leave of absence.


Worst of all she keep on talking about my driving skills with hospital nurse, doctors, near by patients , I have been driving since I was 18, Never had accident in my life. I am taking a divorce …other wise .if not today may be some day we may die in accident.

Women please don’t nag and complain too much….yours sincerely

Wheel chaired husband.

[Aloeswood]

I am a wife and I am tired of guys making fun of our nagging. Before I married I was a sports person always on the go...professional diver and avid soccer player. I have a Masters in Antropology as well. Now I have a 2 year old daughter and I spend most of my days with her and tending to the house, chores and cooking! I am going bananas! I know my husband works, but I too have worked, and being a house wife and mother is more difficult than working at a job or university. It is physically and mentally draining. I cannot even go to the bathroom or sit and relax for a second without my daughter behind me or asking for something. I cannot have a decent conversationwith anyone and I am just completely attached to house and baby! When husband comes home, of course, he has had a hard day at work and wants someone to cook him dinner and relax, but by that time, I have also worked all day and would just like to put my feet up, relax and have someone serve me dinner. Husbands and wives fight because they are both exhausted and both believe their job is more stressful than the other person's job. Wives tend to nag because after the husband comes home we are so fed-up to clean one more mess. At least when a man goes out to work....eventhough he works hard, he has thoughts to himself, can talk with other people and has moments of time to himself. With a woman at home, there is not one second where you have any thoughts or 1 second of private time to yourself. Until bedtime a woman works. With all of this stress, a woman begins to nag because she just wants some peace. She is constantly thinking about her child and what to do for her child. Sometimes, like me, we begin to resent our husbands because they seem to not realize how hard we work all day and how we need a break as well. That leads to nagging and complaining. Sometimes men come home and want to relax and not talk, but when a woman is at home all day with no other adult to talk to, then all you want to do is talk! Your accident is the universes way of telling you and your family something needs to change and be balanced. You either really must get a job for the good of your family's health, or sit-down and talk to your wife seriously and maybe get professional help. Staying in a marriage that has lead to an accident is not healty and staying in a marriage that is unhealthy because you have a son together is not justifiable as you are probably adding too much stress to your child. Talk to your wife from a compassionate point of view and ask her what is wrong...what does hse want? If you truly believe that there is nothing or no professional help to helo you work out your marriage, then you have a crucial decision to make. Often, marriage problems reflect the problems within ourselves and do not change with the next person we marry. You may not know, but your wife may be having post baby blues...serious depression and instead of telling you this or really even knowing it herself, she just nags and nit picks. You both have to grow-up and admit there is a serious problem and agree to work it out or divorce for your health and safety of your child. Do not pass judgements on eachother, just learn from the mistakes and evolve!

[Mayavi Morpheus]

arrey meri ammaa.. kitne lambi choudi postan likh rahi ho

[Mayavi Morpheus]

ohh...u dont understand hindi right? u re Canadian/chinese?

I said: oh my mother, ur posts are long and wide

[The Crackednut]

Hehe Mayavi... Looks like the lady wrote her heart out without lifting her head! But the again, she's got more than point up there... somewhere.



psst...i read the whole thing!

[Mayavi Morpheus]

So did I

Yes, she got a good point, but the length of the post is a bit intimidating and not many may read it.

[Le Chacal]

So should I read the entire post?Or is it a waste of time?

[san]

So should I read the entire post?Or is it a waste of time?

You should. It is very true. Having a baby changes a woman's life completely.

[Le Chacal]

So should I read the entire post?Or is it a waste of time?

You should. It is very true. Having a baby changes a woman's life completely.

Just browsed through it.Definetly an interesting read.

[san]

Wow such words from a man (referring to asli_badmash (assuming he is a guy) )! What a way to look at the situation!



Whenever there is a problem in a relationship, first thing to break down is communication. Frustration builds up. It becomes so easy to rant even to total strangers but when it comes to saying the same stuff to your partner it ain't easy.

[malakpetmasala]

And yeah.... why do they nag about everything?

[CtrlAltDel]

that was a good read, Aloe!

communication and understanding is the key here. spouses shud find time to talk to each other and discuss any issue occupying the mind.

the men can also contribute to better understanding by helping the wife with chores or taking care of the baby. or maybe men can turn cooks on weekends...



the wife shud also remember that nagging (ie repeated verbal assaults) does NOT make a man work.....a trade secret here: husbands always switch off when nagging starts and just make grunting noises or blank nods of the head. secondly, some men do not respond to nagging coz of ego..."If she says it, why shud i do it? " kinda thinking



so dont get worked up if u see that yr nagging has no effect on the man. be patient, state yr case n withdraw...u can always make him pay later...

[san]

Nagging is not cool. It sucks! Nager should state and nagee should take point on board and hopefully nagging will fade away. There are better things in life than just crib about little things all the time.